A Feast Day for Women

On the moveable Church calendar, today is the Feast of Corpus Christi. It’s a magnificent feast day. But not on the one I’m going to write about today.

On the fixed Church calendar (the one based on the calendar date, and not on it’s relationship to Easter/Christmas/etc.), today is the feast of the Visitation. It’s is absolutely one of my favorite feast days. Here are just a few reasons why.

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On Fasting

We are squarely in the midst of the Lenten season. This beautiful but difficult season of prayer and fasting. This time the Church gives us to step back, deny ourselves daily, and try to take up the yolk of Jesus and call of the Gospel a little better.

I secretly love Lent. This is probably in large part because I am a notorious rule-follower. While it is difficult for me to deny myself things during the vast majority of the year, once we enter a season where we are specifically called to do so by the Church, it becomes much easier.

Typically, my Lenten fasts focus around food. This is both easy and hard. Easy, because it is easy to decide what to give up. Hard, because it is always things I love. (I love almost all food. See? Easy/hard.) Yet, each Lent it is good for me because (and if you’ve ever spent anytime at all around me, you can probably confirm this is true) I AM INORDINATELY ATTACHED TO FOOD. All too often, I am planning my next meal or the next restaurant I want to visit while eating my current meal. I feel a lot of pressure, at times, to properly curate my culinary experiences. How to take advantage of all my beautiful city has to culinarily offer while also on a budget and while I also love to cook? So most often, during Lent, my diet is without sugar or alcohol or wheat or fast food or snacks between meals or full size meals, or some combination of the above, etc.

This Lent has been different, and it’s helped me refocus on the purpose of fasting. I think true fasting is meant to help you put something in it’s proper place in your life. While it would be a stretch to say food is a true “idol” in my life, I certainly focus on it more than necessary for the substance that is primarily meant to fuel my body.

With the exception of sugar, I am not fasting from any foods this Lent. I am not trying to deny my body. Instead, I am trying to come back into a healthy relationship with food.  Continue reading “On Fasting”

Reimagining our Tactic: The Pro-life Movement

Today in the state of Illinois, going against his promise to his constituents and the legislators of Illinois, Governor Bruce Rauner signed into law mandated taxpayer funding of abortion for those on Medicaid. It is estimated that this will effectively increase the number of abortions in Illinois by the thousands – and the financial burden (and arguably moral burden, for many) of these will weigh on Illinois residents. This in a state that already has a much higher abortion rate than the states around us, and an infamous problem with our finances to boot.

As I thought about this, riding the El home from work today, I couldn’t help but feel that, politically, the pro-life movement seems to be losing, rather than gaining ground. In some ways. But abortion is still legal through all nine months of pregnancy for any reason. So yes, it feels like not much has changed.

Then I began to wonder, what would happen if we, as a movement, acted like abortion laws were here to stay?

To be clear, I am not suggesting we should stop lobbying for the legal protection of unborn children. But if ultimately the goal of the pro-life movement is to provide protection for the unborn, I wonder if the very tunnel-vision focus on changing abortion law is helping or hurting that goal. I guess this is what I am asking: if we could not change abortion law in our country, what would we do differently to change abortion numbers and save lives? Especially in the political sphere?

Would we lobby to provide better healthcare for women, especially low income women, so they felt more able to choose life when they become pregnant?

Would we advocate for better parental leave policies for both mothers and fathers so that women aren’t forced to choose between a career and a child?

Similarly, would we work to eliminate workplace discrimination against mothers, of whom it is often assumed they will be less committed to their jobs upon having children?

Could we even, as a Church, try to eliminate the stigma and shame that surrounds single motherhood in our own communities, allowing for grace and providing support to new mothers who are in an unexpected pregnancy?

On a day where it feels like we’re losing ground in the fight for the life of America’s most vulnerable, I am not giving up. I’m looking for new avenues to empower women to choose life, even if they have the choice not to. Will you join me?

An Advent Heart

I like being called to holiness, and not just reminded of my sins. (Don’t we all?) I was thinking of this lately as I considered the different impact Advent has on my heart and spiritual than that of Lent. They are both penitential seasons, after all; yet they impact me differently, and I started to wonder why.

Lent is heavy. Penance. I am a sinner and Christ died for those sins. I place my hope in his mercy and forgiveness. That sort of thing.

Not to sound casual, just trying to summarize. After all, it’s a beautiful season, and I am always eager for it when we get to that moment of the liturgical season. But it is heavy. I am called to contemplate my sins as I reprove my body with penance and fasting, helping my soul lean in to repentance and transformation by engaging my body in the action. It’s easy to feel the futility of that task, though, until I get to Easter and remember the story that makes the whole endeavor possible. Christ’s unending grace. Continue reading “An Advent Heart”